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@hpntlbub N H``gpthrgh rjnblr@hpntlbub H``gpthrgh strnn pbhjgtgn@hpntlbub N H``gpthrgh `gblrbhbn@hpntlbub NN Krhclstgh `u "K" ahrg

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`hrg %n %jtbjgs`$ %j tlhtg rnbg %j `hrg agrc$ hspnr bh l `hbnthtgahn ouj h #ngnn blr njtgrnlhrg$ tnnjk %j alk njtuntn# `$ htuj`n`jk njtgrnlrub sg s`-nao$ sg trhjsflra n g.tgrnlrub&

H`gsth gstg altn#ub pgjtru `hrg ha buht -ltrrgh kg h s`rng l`hrtg kgsprg h``gpthrg$ kgsprg tlhtg sgjsurnbg `u#jtubun$ %jkn#grsg tnpurn kg sntuhnn$ ahn hbgs `gbg jgklrntg n jgpb`utg$ %an

klrgs` knj tlt su*gtub `h h`gstg rjkurn s # hmutg s #%jsunn ahn onjg jlnujgh kg krhclstg hkg#rht&

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prsnt,l pgjtru ` gu grha %jsr`njht$ nhr hpln jg,ha`stlrnt flhrtg rgpgkg& 2nn`h jlhstr$ ?hjkrh hrg h`uaphnsprg9g`g hjn& Knj jln `nfrh phnsprg9g`g6 )u ha losgr#ht`lnj`nkgjh h`ghsth kg`t htuj`n `jk ha h*ht ` #ln #gjnhn n hst9n n ` a #ln prgctn s,an pl#gstgs` #nhh&/gjtru Ahrnl$ h flst uj hkg#rht l` s h*g ` grha%jsr`njht$ bh `tg#h bujn kup `g jg,ha `ujls`ut& 1tnh `nhu hjtn`lj`gpnljhbg n h trhs `lj`bu9nh ` f`gha phrtgknj `gbg 5: fgagn `hrg raj %jsr`njhtg %j `nukh`ljtrh`gpngn& N,ha spus ` jg fusgsg kgstnjht s h#ga uj`lpnb %aprguj$ untjk s %n spuj ` ju buhsga njtgjnljhthjtn,`lj`gpnljhbg$ %j tnap `g grha bh l#ubhng& Grha

fgrn`nt ` ju trgounh s %n spuj hkg#rub$ `jk n,ha #9utrgh`nh$ ju #lronsgra jn`nlkht ` #la h#gh `lpnn$ pgjtru` jg `ujltgha kg flhrtg punj tnap&&&

&&& 1tnu ` ju hr f% trgount s fh` njtgjnljht %j hh fgb %j`ts raj %jsr`njht$ khr %b nuogha htt kg aubt n %an grhtgha ` ju sg #h kgsprn kg slnh bun& ?g snagh flhrtg#njl#ht bh nkggh kg h kn#lrh$ `jk +ub bun grh hklbgs`gjt$

%js trnha l phsnujg ahrg n pgjtru gb kg#gjnsg flhrtgcrgu s nj#gjtg9g agrgu s`u9g pgjtru h jg putgh %jtbjn`t ahn kgs& 1n %j pbus$ a sturhsga s +u snjcur %j(gg>! n jg,ha `stlrnt bh 0hs Vgchs$ flhrtg kns`rgt$ bh klubujn kup `g s,h js`ut ?hjkrh& Kg honh trg`usg l buj %jtrgkn#lrub bun n `stlrnh jlhstr& Ahn aubtg pgrslhjg %an

spusgsgr ` ju gstg prgh sjtls pgjtru uj `upbu s tghjchmg9n htt kg rgpgkg %jtr,l h kluh rgbhng n ` hr +trgount s ahn htgpta& H#ghu krgpthtg$ `rgk$ kglhrg`g`upbub jlstru trg`g prnj aubtg kn+`ubtn h`ua&

; Kg `jk #,hn `stlrnt$ n,hn spus ` hn pbjunt s ran%jsr`njhtI

)u$ ju ha h#ut jn`nlkht `urhmub s %n #lrogs` kgsprg

hsth& )u tnn kg `tg lrn ha #rut s %n #lrogs` kgsprg hsth&Kg `tg lrn ha #rut s %n arturnsgs`$ %js %j ubtnaubalagjt$ an sg f`gh frn` n hajha arturnsnrgh& 4an

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hanjtgs` `ua csgha tlt tnapub tlt fgbub kg altn#g pgjtruh ju,n ahn spujg& ?ujt bh$ ju,n hhI

; )u sg pujg prlobgah s mukg`a `laplrthagjtub tu&Kg +g`hrg kht `jk %n puj l %jtrgohrg l fh` klhr pgjtru htg hmuth s tg kgs`lpgrn& ? +n htgjt bh `u#njtgbg pg `hrg bgflblsgtn `jk #lrogtn kglhrg`g sujt flhrtg naplrthjtg&@hrg sujt `gbg ahn ahrn kn+`ubtn pg `hrg bg trngtn h`uaI

; )u ahn plt s ha %j`rgkgrg nj gb kglhrg`g ojungs` `hrg l bgctur `u l hbt fgagng& 4j`gr` s rgjuj bh ojungbn%js ju rgugs`$ ahn hbgs `jk g #lroh kgsprg h`gst bu`ru&A cjkgs` tlt tnapub bh hsth khr %j`gr` s ju bhs s sg#hk jnan`& @rgk ` %n khn sghah `t kg strgshjt gstg h`gst

bu`ru& @jk sg %jtlhr`g h`hs slub agu gstg tlt ahn lolsntn hklhrag %j fltlbnub bun& Vlrogtg flhrtg punj `u anjg n`u ?hjkrh& 4an spujg ` %n phrg ru pgjtru htntuknjgh bun$ `ju tng `g g `u gb$ ` gstg `g#h trg`tlr n %an `grg s harokhrg& Knj `jk %j `jk ahn fh`ga krhclstg$ khr ju gstg`ua grh %jhnjtg& 2nub bun$ Kh#nk$ `hrg h`ua hrg klu9g`n n`nj`n kg hjn gstg `stlrnt n hrg uj `lpnb kg phtru hjn& Ahrnl

ju sg cjkgtg kgbl` bh jgplgbub bun& Gu sujt `gh `hrg %nhanjtgtg agrgu s aghrc s %b #hk pg Kh#nk& @jk n,hasucgrht bun Ahrnl s aghrc bh uj agkn`$ `rg9jk ` hrg lkgprgsng an,h rspujs ` ju hrg jg#lng kg agkn`&

; Kg `jk hn %j`gput s losgr#n tlhtg hstghI; )u tnu g.h`t& Kg #rgl kln hjn sujt ahn htgjt$ khr `rgk

` htntuknjgh bun h hprut ahn kg aubt$ klhr ` ju #lnha s

#k h`gst bu`ru& 4b %jtrgo tlt tnapub `g sg %jtapb `u gb na pbjc kg htntuknjgh bun& Klhr htuj`n `jk ha h*ht `#ln #gjn bh tnjg ha flst ahn htgjt s #grn+` `ggh `gtrnha& An,ha kht sghah ` ju n,ha #lront jn`nlkhtkgsprg ojungbnbg agbg kglhrg`g %an gstg flhrtg frn` kg`ggh `g s,hr putgh %jtapbh& /hr` prgfgr s ju tnu kg`ts h*u `g#h crgu kg suplrtht pgjtru anjg& H`ua %an fh`g

flhrtg onjg s #lrogs` kgsprg hsth&; s rg#gjna nagknht bh `ggh `g trngtn tu h`ua& H#rgh s tg ahn %jtrgo `g#h& Ahrnl h %jtrgprnjs n gb `g#h$bgcht kg prlprnh bun kg9#lbthrg pgrsljhbI

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H `ntnt prnah th `hrtg$ h`ua `n#h hjn n h hsnstht bh prnaub`urs hb crupubun&s`ut-!n `lrpu% Ha h*ht kgsprg `ggh `gfh`n tu kg bh jlrh jlhstr$ An`-gbbg$ `hrg tg,h kgs`lpgrnt`jk h#gh lptsprg9g`g hjn& Grh htt kg prnjs kg `ggh `gh*hsg %j`t jg,h lfgrnt prnah th `hrtg n jg,h sftunt sagrcga bh `ursurn& Kup h`ggh Ahrnl n,h pngrkut njtgrgsub&Gu %an prlantgha agrgu s phrtn`np n bh hbtg htgbngrg$ khr`ua ju %an lrchjn9g9 prgh onjg tnapub$ haj `ggh `g#rghu s fh`&&&

&&& H#ga kn+`ubtn n `u +n`h jlhstr$ ?hjkrh& 1tnn `g%jsghaj s hn uj `lpnb kg phnsprg9g`g hjn$ ju,n hhI Kup`ua sg %aorh` n sg ah`-nh9 hn spujg ` hrg lptsprg9g`g

hjn& /hrg flhrtg prl#l`htlhrg n sujt agrgu jgbnjntnt `jksg %jtlhr`g sghrh tr9nu h`hs& 4j`-npung,n ` %an spujg `gu sujt l otrj kgalkht& Gu `hrg ha klhr trgn9g`n nlpt kg hjn6 A snat %j` tjr$ khr gh a `ljsnkgrotrj& )u %an pl#gstgtg jn`nlkht `g fh`g `u prngtgjgbggn& Grh sujht htt kg kgs h`hs %j`t h trgount s %n buaprlprnub gn tgbgflj alonb& )g,h prlans ` %n #h pbtn fh`turh$

bh sfrntub +g`rgn bujn$ khr %j` ju n,h njut jn`nlkhtprlansnujgh& Ahrnl an,h sucgrht s nn `lj+s` tgbgfljub$ khrhstfgb a #ln pgkgpsn kg fhpt pg anjg' hr trgoun s rspujkbh tlhtg hpgburnbg pg `hrg bg prnagtg$ fr s ahn nj `ljtkg fhptub ` bnjnh tgbgfljn` hr + hstfgb agrgu l`upht&&&

&&& 1n ahn ha l prlobga& Ahrnl %an spujg tlt tnapub'"2hsth shu hsth `u +n`h 8H"& Gb ju #rgh s sg napbn`g& Vrgh `h

gu s nhu tlhtg kg`n9nnbg n `jk `g#h ju agrcg gb sgrgtrhcg spujjk ` g #njh agh$ ` ju tnu `ua s akgs`ur` `u +n`h agh&

; /j h`ua an,hn #lront kgsprg ahn aubtg prlobgag& ?rg#gjna bh prnah prlobga kgsprg `hrg hn #lront$ tghah th` Ahrnl tg %jhb& G kg prgfgrht s bu`ra pg rjk$ pg+g`hrg prlobga& Vla rg#gjn bh `gbgbhbtg %j uratlhrgbg

thbg #n9ntg& @ua tg snan tu %j sntuhnh h`ghsthIHjh njspnr hk$j` n gpnr hpln prgujc% Knjtr-l kht, n-hukht h`rnang% * prngtg `$tgh alagjtg n hpln l`(nn gn

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kgnj tlt ahn trntn% Gu ju spuj jnan`% n l'gr l )htnst n ujph(hr kg hp% Kup `$tgh anjutg, gh rspujkg.

; An,ha kht sghah ` frn`h agh `gh ahn ahrg gstg s jpngrk pg Ahrnl& 4b nuogs` htt kg aubt n klrnjh agh `ghahn ahrg gstg s %an pgtrg` rgstub #ngnn `u gb&

; @ua tg snan h`uaI 4j`-nkg l`-nn n bhs s ur`g `ggh`g snan htuj`n `jk tg cjkgtn ` %b #gn pngrkg&

A snat htt kg trnst& 4an gstg flhrtg frn`& /hr` h h#ghl pnhtr ahrg %j pjtg`g& ?nat n aubt furng& 1tnu ` lrgfubg9 kg aubt tnap& An,g frn` s ju %an pngrk `ljtrlbubkh` bhs s nhs tlht h`ghst furng n htuj`n #h + #njh aghkh` gb #h pbg`h knj `hu9h h`ghsth& Nkggh kg h rajg

snjcur a spgrng flhrtg thrg& 1n `-nhr `rgk ` fgtnh jlhstr#h hbgcg s raj `u thtb gn' `u gb plhtg fh`g `g #rgh gh&/gjtru anjg$ uj hstfgb kg hohjklj hr rgprg9gjth l #nhrhtht& )u tnu kh` #ln ahn putgh s %an rg#nj&

; /gjtru h rg9uah$ `ggh `g tg kgrhjmgh9 `gb ahn aubt$gstg htntuknjgh n `laplrthagjtub bun Ahrnl fh kg tnjg nfh kg `gnbhbn agaorn hn fhanbngn n plsnonbnthtgh `h gb s tg

%jgbg& Khr hkg#rhth prlobga gstg frn`h th kg h pngrkgnuonrgh slubun n h +n`gn thbg n kg h rajg snjcur& HhgstgI

; Kh$ 0nsg$ hh gstg& 4jhnjtg s #lrogs` kgsprg hsth ju%an kkgha sghah `t kg frn` %an gstg s ju +uhohjkljht& Ha f`ut `ursub kgsprg `gbg `nj`n rjn hbgsu*gtubun n ha losgr#ht flhrtg punjg `hrh`tgrnstn`n hbg

rjnn kg hohjklj bh anjg& 1n ju ojunha ` ha h`ghstrhj& @rgk `h rhjh agh kg trkhrg gstg aubt ahn g#nkgjt&@rgk ` #h trgoun s a l`up kg hajklu$ juI

; Vla h#gh tnap pgjtru h sthonbn bgcturnbg `u rjnbg thbg&Khr #rghu s tg ahn %jtrgo `g#h& @g %n klrgtn %j #nhI @gfgb kg hmutlr #rgnI @g htgpn kg bh anjgI

; Gstg flhrtg snapbu$ #rghu s %an pstrg9 slub n #rghu

`h fhanbnh jlhstr s +g ujnt n s ju ahn +a kgsprnn& H#rgh s %an khn anmblh`gbg kg h,an htnjcg h`gst s`lp&)nagjn ju %n plhtg chrhjth uj anmbl` kg h,b pstrh pg

slub tu$ kglhrg`g h`gst bu`ru kgpnjkg kg gb& 1tnn flhrtg

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onjg ` ju %n pln lobnch$ jn`n pg slub tu$ jn`n pg +n`h th$ sraj `u tnjg& Vrgn s h*n kg `g htrhcn h`gst cgj kgsntuhnnI Gtn prgctnt s %n hsuan rgspljshonbnthtgh pgjtru`ggh `g n sg %jtapbI 4n puj h`ghst %jtrgohrg$ kglhrg`g$`-nhr kh` htgpn h`gst bu`ru kg bh anjg$ %an gstg naplsnonbs %n spuj ` gtn jgfgrn`nt knj `hu9h slubun tu shu h+n`gn thbg& Kg hsgagjgh$ ju %n spuj jn`n ` gstg #njh th& 4jrghbnthtg$ ju gstg #njh jnajun$ g.nst klhr lhagjn `hrgsufgr n `hrg ju tnu `ua s cgstnljg9g hjuantg sntuhnn&&&/lt g#gjtuhb s tg hmut s h*n `hu9h pgjtru `ggh `g n sg%jtapb n s %n sucgrg9 anmblh`g kg h h``gpth `ggh `g nsg #h %jtapbh %j #nh$ +g ` %n klrgtn shu ju h`gb bu`ru&

; G hkg#rht ` #rghu s `ujls` `hu9gbg h`gstgh khr hh``gpth `h slub agu s hbghc s pbg`gI @rg9n %jtr,hkg#r` l fgagng `hrg %n nuogtg slu hmujc bh h`gst cgj kgh``gpthrgI

; 1tnn$ Hjh$ rgh`nh th gstg flhrtg lagjghs`& )u ha spusjn`nlkht ` gstg ulr s trngtn hstfgb kg sntuhnn$ khr sujt`lj#njs ` pln csn %j tnjg krhclstgh jg`gshr pgjtru h

h``gpth l sntuhng jgklrnt& H + `hphonb s %jfrujn lrn`gsntuhng %jsghaj h kh kl#hk kg %jgbgp`nujg nh``gpthrg& ? #rgn `h bu`rurnbg s aghrc hh `ua #rgn tu$%jsghaj `ljtrlb&Hn losgr#ht ` h`gst cgj kg `ljtrlb ju s`-nao jnan` n ju%n plhtg lfgrn bnjntgh njtgrnlhrI /ln csn h`ghst ph`gnjtgrnlhr klhr prnj krhclstgh hkg#rht& Gtn kg h`lrk s

#lrona kgsprg h`gst bu`ruI; 7njg%jgbgs$ sujt ahn aubt kg`t prgctnt& )u ahnsuplrt h`ghst sntuhng n sujt flhrtg kgs`-ns s %j# hbtgbu`rurn$ %jkr9jgs` s spgr ` #la csn l slbung pgjtru `hbu`rurnbg s sg %aoujtghs` %j rgbhnh jlhstr kg `upbu&

; /gjtru h bu`rh ahn onjg %aprguj$ %n sucgrg9 s #nn n `uAhrnl& ?pujg,n s #nj l kht `u tnjg n$ kh` gstg kg h`lrk$

#h putgh s ahn rg#nj htuj`n `jk #h + jg`gshr s +nhajkln prg9gjn& 4j tnapub uratlhrgn jlhstrg %jtbjnrn#la #lron kgsprg `ggh `g %jsghaj krhclstgh hkg#rht

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pgjtru h putgh hpln csn anmblh`gbg `gbg ahn pltrn#ntgpgjtru #nhh #lhstr kg `upbu n kg fhanbng&&&

&&& @rg9n ` %j njtgr#hbub kg pj bh uratlhrgh jlhstr%jtbjnrg #gn putgh csn `urhmub kg h,n arturnsn bun Ahrnl`ggh `g an,hn %aprtnt ang' fhptub ` tu ojungtn ` gbhrg l rgbhng `u l hbt fgagng n kg hsgagjgh$ tghah th kgh + hohjkljht$ `hrg gstg h`tn#ht kg h`ghst %jklnhbI@rg9n ` %n #gn putgh %aprtn fhptub ` hn f`ut njtgjnljhts ran %jsr`njhtI Kg hsgagjgh$ hr + njkn`ht s #lrogtn`u ahah th n s h*n kh` n gh h#gh h`gbghn tgagrn `h ntnjg$ hkn` %n grh tgha ` ju #h ahn + nuont n #h +hohjkljht kg thtb tu n kg `lpnnn gn&

; %an `grn flhrtg aubt$ ju tnu kh` #ln + %j sthrg s fh`tlhtg h`gstgh&2 `ggh `g pln& 4an pbh`g s sucgrg9 `g s fh`n$ kup

+g`hrg %jtbjnrg pg `hrg l h#ga& /utga trhjsflrahsntuhnnbg jgklrntg klhr prnj h`nujn knfgrntg& Khr$ `ggh `ggstg flhrtg plrthjt gstg s trg`n prnj prnah gthp$ h`gh kgh rg`ujlhtg mb$ pg alagjt$ ju h`nljg9n hh `ua hn #rgh

tu$ khr gstg snjcurub alk kg h h`nljh$ pg `hrg %b `ujltn& 4nhanjtgtn$ %j `ursub kgsprg rjn$ kg `tg lrn hn hu9ntspujjku,sg ` gstg jlrahb n lagjgs` s rgh`nljg9nhtuj`n `jk sufgrnI 8lt `ggh `g ju agrcg hh `ua #rgn tu %jrgbhnh th kg `upbu n %j rgbhnh `u +n`h th$ prl#njg knjrgh`nnbg thbg$ `hu9htg kg rjnbg pg `hrg bg hn n kg rgh`nnbg`gblr knj murub tu& 8rgoung s %n h`lr9n krgptub , n s bg

h`lr9n n `gblrbhbn krgptub , kg h + l +nj uahj n kg h,nh``gpth bnantgbg n rjnbg %j` jg#njkg`htg&

Kg rgnjut knj h`gst `hpntlb; Gstg naplrthjt s ju #lrona klhr kgsprg sntuhnh

trnht$ `n s csna hkg#rhth prlobga %jtrgojk,l pgpgrslhjh %j `hu9 `ua sg snatg %j h`gh sntuhng& 4j pbus$

trgoung s tng `ggh `g #rgh gh %j bgctur `u h`ghprlobga& Gstg ahn onjg s rg9lb#n pg rjk `tg l prlobgal kht& 2hptub kg h #rgh `h tltub s sg %jtapbg hh `ua#rga jln rgprg9njt uj `ljtrlb n$ htth tnap `t ju jg

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bsa bnogrn$ jnan` ju sg #h s`-naoh& )u gstg #njh jnajun&G.nst klhr lhagjn `hrg sufgr n `hrg ju tnu `ua scgstnljg9g hjuantg sntuhnn& ?`-naohrgh ujgn sntuhnnjgklrntg ju plhtg + f`ut kg`t prnj h`nujn knfgrntg& Gthph`gh ahn naplrthjt gstg h``gpthrgh alagjtubun&H``gpthrgh fhptubun `$ htuj`n `jk `njg#h sufgr$ sufgrpgjtru ` h flst htnjs ujh knjtrg rjnbg shbg n h`ghsthrgh`nljgh9& H``gpthrgh fhptubun ` sujtga +njg uahjg$`u rjn jg#njkg`htg %j`&

@hpntlbub NN

Knfgrntgbg fgg hbg nuonrnn sptaj ahn tr9nu$ Ahrnl n Hjh hu #gjnt s a#hk&

Ahrnl gstg ahn sur9tlr kg`t a htgptha& Hjh phrgflhrtg fgrn`nt pgjtru ` slub gn h h``gptht s #nj `u gh&

; 7uj 9nuh$ 0nsg$ an,h spus Ahrnl& ?ujt %j`jtht s tg`ujls`& Hjh an,h pl#gstnt kgsprg #n9nth gn bh tnjg n kgsprg n

kgagrsub pg `hrg #rgh s %b fh`$ khr h -ltrt s %an spujklhr %j bnjnn ahrn `ggh `g s,h %jtapbht& Arturnsgs` ` an,hstrjnt `urnl9nthtgh& Kg l sptaj %j`lh`g ha rgahr`htls`-naohrg bh gh' gstg aubt ahn bnjntnt& Ha h``gptht s#nj `u gh hn`n$ khr ju tnu kh` a njtgrgsgh9 ujhsgagjgh kgagrs&

; %n aubuags` ` hn #gjnt h9n$ Ahrnl& 4j `ggh `g prn#gtg

#nntlrub$ tu gtn snjcurub `hrg #h -ltr% kh` h`ghstprlpujgrg %n `lj#njg shu ju& ? bua +g`hrg 9n pg rjk kgh``lrkI

?nagha ` Ahrnl #gjnsg klhr pgjtru h,n fh`g pg pbh` Hjgnn knj `urnl9nthtg& Knj fgrn`nrg tnh kgmh `ggh `g f`gha gu$hbtfgb hr + flst aubt ahn jg%j`rg9tlr& /gjtru `upbu$ fhptubkg h #gjn %aprguj bh l `ljsubthng$ gstg kgmh l #n`tlrng

naplrthjt& /rn#nrgh bun Ahrnl n %j`bnjhrgh h+rahtn# knj`hp %an spujghu ` g fgrn`nt pgjtru ` gu ju %j`gr`ha s %b`lj#njc s urag9g g.gapbub Hjgn n putgh s -ltrhs`snjcur pgjtru gb& Ha `ljtnjuht hhkhr&

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&&& @jk uj `upbu hrg kn+`ubtn `rgk ` gstg ahn onjg s+g prg9gjn hajkln phrtgjgrnn$ pgjtru h putgh hstfgb shuk #grsnujgh +g`runh& Hstfgb$ sg plt sthonbn fhptgbg$ %jtr,ujalk aubt ahn `lapbgt& Ahrnl$ gtn kg h`lrk `u fhptub `fhanbnh #lhstr n `upbub #lstru hr h#gh jg#lng s +g%aoujtntgI

; Kh$ trgoung s rg`ujls` ` Hjh hrg krgpthtg& Khr s jua %jtrgon `ua ha hmujs %j h`ghst sntuhng$ `rgk ` s,h%jtapbht pur n snapbu& Vnhh jlhstr s,h s`-naoht htt kgsuotnb ` ju ha %jtrg#9ut jn`n l s`-naohrg& Gu `rgk ` ju`ljsnkgr h`ghst sntuhng htt kg crh#$ hh `ua `rgkgHjh& Gh h flst %jtltkghujh ahn %jcrnmlrht kg`t anjg$

hkuc gb 9aonjk `u`grntlr n `bnpnjk knj l`-n sprg slnhbun& An sg phrg ` gstg jlrahb `h$ kup phnsprg9g`g hjn kg#nh %aprguj$ bu`rurnbg s ju ahn +g hh `ua grhu bh%j`gput& @jk `laphr #nhh agh `u Hjh$ `u #nhh pg `hrg lh#gha `u prnah agh slng$ rgahr` l knfgrgj naplrthjt&/g =nth ju l ahn putgha suplrth n f`gha %j hh fgb %j`ts bnpsgs` kg h`hs& H`ua sujt kg h`lrk `u nkggh s fh`ga

`g#h s %aoujtna rgbhnh$ kh` gstg plsnonb&; Gstg flhrtg onjg$ Ahrnl& ?ujt fgrn`nt s huk ` #rgn s%aoujtgtn bu`rurnbg$ hbtfgb hr + flst flhrtg crgu s csna%aprguj l slbung& s %j`gp prnj h rg#n9un %aprguj `u#ln jlnujgh kg krhclstg hkg#rht& H`gsth g prnaub s`lphb %jtbjnrnn jlhstrg& ?ujtgn kg h`lrkI

Hajkln an,hu rspujs kh$ %j h`gbhn tnap n Ahrnl h

hkucht'; ?g %apbnjgs` `nj`n hjn kg `jk ha uraht `ursurnbgHs`ubt,n `lrpub hh %j`t hr + jg`gshr l rg`hpntubhrg&

; @u#jtub krhclstg g fr %jklnhb$ ujub knjtrg `u#njtgbg`gbg ahn kgs flblsntg %j buag n gstg flblsnt %j htt kg aubtgfgburn %j`t gstg flhrtg crgu s %n rg`ujltn hkg#rhthsgajn+`hng& Kg h`ggh aubn lhagjn sg %jhb hsuprh

aubtlr htntuknjn n `laplrthagjtg pg `hrg bg `ljsnkgrnuonrg hkg#rht& ? %j`gr`a s puj`ta %aprguj`laplrthagjtgbg n fgbub kg h trn `hrg sujt `gb ahn hkgsgh`ljfujkhtg `u nuonrgh&&&

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&&&? %j`gpga `u H2G@ON)GH& ?g `rgkg ` l pgrslhjpbnj kg hfg`nujg gstg pbnj kg krhclstg& @tg pgrslhjg ju%n hrht flhrtg ulr hfg`nujgh fh kg `gn hprlpnhn$ %js sg`rntn` n sg uanbgs` tlt tnapubI pgrslhj `hrg snatgaubt hfg`nujg hrg thbgjtub kg h bg hrth `gblrbhbn `t kgaubt l hfg`tgh9 gn& /lhtg flblsn kn#grsg anmblh`g$ prg`uauj `hklu$ uj `lapbnagjt$ s lfgrg *lrn$ htnjcgrn`bkurlhsg$ %aornrn$ pgjtru `h `gbbhbt s snat ` gstgnaplrthjt %j #nhh gn& ?gajgbg kg hfg`nujg plt + flhrtghprg`nhtg kg `trg `gn `hrg bg prnags`$ khr ju plt spujg%js ` pgrslhjh `hrg bg lfgr$ fh`g h`gst bu`ru knjkrhclstg hkg#rht& Kh` pgrslhjh `hrg k h`gstg sgajg

kg hfg`nujg$ hrg `gh ahn an` htgpthrg$ ju gstg #lrohkgsprg uj khr knj krhclstg' ahn kgcrho htghpt sprnaghs` uj hbt khr %j s`-nao&

&&&%j h`ghst `htgclrng sg plt %js`rng lhagjnn flhrtgkgaljstrhtn#n& Aubn `rgk ` h + kgaljstrhtn# gstg uj sgajkg nuonrg$ `jk kg fhpt$ %j rghbnthtg$ h + kgaljstrhtn#$ h +g.prgsn#$ ju hrg jnan` kg h fh`g `u krhclstgh hkg#rht$

gstg klhr l trstur kg `hrh`tgr knfgrnt&&&&?g plhtg %jtapbh `h l pgrslhj s ju spuj jn`nlkhttg nuogs` `un#h n `u tlhtg h`gstgh s +g pbnj kg nuonrg&Gstg pur n snapbu nj`hphonb s g.prnag `ggh `g trngtg&8ltun$ h`gh pgrslhj %n g.prna nuonrgh prnj hbtg anmblh`g&G #lroh klhr kgsprg h bg rg`ujlhtg&&& s #gkga ahntr9nu `g %jsghaj nuonrgh hkg#rht&

&&& pgrslhj plhtg snan AN0H fh kg hbt`njg#h$ kgg.gapbu fh kg l pgrslhj `u uj -hjkn`hp& @gn `hrg #kh`gh anb plt `rgkg ` h`gh pgrslhj snatg nuonrg pgjtrupgrslhjh `u -hjkn`hp& 4js anbh ju %jsghaj nuonrg& Gstg lsgjsnonbnthtg fh kg sufgrnjgbg shu jgfgrn`nrnbg hbt`un#h& 4jcgjgrhb$ anbh prlku`g sufgrnj ju klhr pgrslhjgn `hrg lhrhth$ `n n `gbgn `hrg l prnagtg& Hkgsglrn$ %j alk

nj`ljtngjt$ pgrslhjh `rgnh n sg hrht anbh `un#h$ `rgkg `h`gbbhbt n sg `ljsnkgr supgrnlr& H`ghsth bhs naprgsnh ` jusg kgs`ur` snjcur n kg`n$ gstg njfgrnlhr&

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&&& hbt pgrslhj plhtg kh kl#hk kg uj ahrgKGV8HAG)8 pgjtru `njg#h$ `rg9jk ` hstfgb %nkgaljstrgh9 nuonrgh& ?g plhtg `h h`gb kg#lthagjt s +galtn#ht kg nuonrgh hkg#rht$ khr g.nst aubtg sntuhnn nj`hrg ju gstg `h9ub& Aun knjtrg `gn flhrtg kg#lthn sujtaltn#hn ahn aubt kg khtlrng$ kg `ubphonbnthtg shu kg frn`&?g sh`rn+` pgjtru l hbt pgrslhj shu pgjtru l `hu9naplrthjt pgjtru gn$ %js h sg sh`rn+`h" %jsghaj kg fhpth %apbnjn #lnjh hbt`un#h& Kg h`ggh$ kg flhrtg aubtg lrn$kg#lthagjtub prgsupujg `h pgrslhjh %j `hu9 s untg`lapbgt prlprnnbg shbg jg#ln pgjtru h bg hs`ubth pg hbg`gbunbhbt& j hstfgb kg `laplrthagjt ju plhtg njku`g kg`t

l aubnag kg htgptrn kg rg`ujlhtgrg n$ kh` h`gstghtgptrn ju sujt %apbnjntg$ hphr galnnbg n frustrrnbg&&&&&&G.nst kg hsgagjgh n N7N=GH /H?N)G `hrg hprlhpg

%jtltkghujh gstg `ljfujkht `u l ahrg nuonrg& Hkgsglrn sgflblsgtg g.prgsnh nuonrg jgouj pgjtru h kgs`rng l nuonrgphsnljhb& Hh h flst `h9ub #lstru$ ju,n hh$ bh %j`gputubrgbhngn #lhstrgI 8gragjub kgs`rng flhrtg onjg fhptub ` `gb

%j `hu9 hprlhpg ` %n pngrkg rhnujgh& G.nst l nuonrgphsnljhb" `jk l pgrslhj ju sg plhtg snan onjg kg`t %j/rg9gjh +njgn nuontg& )u plhtg h``gpth `h `gbbhbt s +gfgrn`nt %j hosgjh gn n$ ahn hbgs$ kh` h`gsth %n g.prnaklrnjh kg h fh`g hjuantg bu`rurn snjcur& hstfgb kgpgrslhj trngtg klhr pgjtru alagjtub %j `hrg `gbbhbt #h+ bjc gh shu %j `hrg %n #h putgh hu9n #l`gh& 4b nkgghbn9gh9

pg `gbbhbt$ htrnounjku,n klhr `hbntnbg `hrg %n `lj#nj& )u#gkg rghbnthtgh$ hkn` kgfg`tgbg h`gstunh& H`gst cgj kgnuonrg h knstrus aubtg `upburn$ h cgjgrht l aubnag kgprlobgag prlfgsnljhbg n `-nhr h runjht hjuantg pgrslhjg$kglhrg`g lhagjnn phsnljhbn nhu kg aubtg lrn kg`n9nn fr ssg cjkghs`$ pgjtru h + `t ahn aubt `u long`tub phsnujnnblr& H`gst tnp kg nuonrg ju gstg l nuonrg hkg#rht&&&

&&& )u spuj ` ju trgoung s g.nstg nuonrgh phsnljhb$pgjtru h `ujlhtg nuonrgh hkg#rht& 4j rghbnthtg$ sg%jtapb kgstub kg kgs `h l rgbhng halrlhs s +gphsnljhb bh %j`gput$ %js trgptht sg gstlapgh9 pgjtru h

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; Gstg losgr#hng n rgspljshonbnthtg& 4n rghanjtgs` ` h +rgspljshonb %jsghaj h,n hsuah `ljsg`njgbg hbgcgrnblr pg`hrg bg fh`n n s %n bhn pg hbnn s %n hsuag `ljsg`njgbgprlprnnblr blr kg`n9nn& Kh` slub tu$ ujub knjtrg prnjnn tnshu ujub knjtrg `lpnnn tn kg`nkg s ju +g fgrn`nt$ trgoung s%n hsuag `ljsg`njgbg& Kh` tu ju gtn fgrn`nt knj `hu9h-ltrrnn bun$ htuj`n gtn pg `hbg s %n hsuan `ljsg`njgbghbgcgrnn `gbunbhbt& 1tnu ` jlnujgh kg rgspljshonbnthtg gstgflhrtg crgu kg hsuaht$ kg `trg ahmlrnthtgh lhagjnblr n#la ahn #lron kg ahn aubtg lrn kgsprg gh& Kg#gjnjk knj `g%j `g ahn rgspljshonb$ #gn #gkgh ` g.nst l `hbg kg anmbl`%jtrg h tg `ljsnkgrh rgspljshonb kg fgrn`nrgh hbtunh n h +

njknfgrgjt&&&&?pujgha kg`n ` l pgrslhj flhrtg plsgsn#$ `-nhrcgblhs$ gstg `lj#njs ` hstfgb %n g.prnah nuonrgh fh kg`gbbhbt& @ua pln rg`ujlhtg uj hstfgb kg `laplrthagjt`jk gstg #lroh kgsprg uj phrtgjgr$ uj prnjtg shu uj`lpnbI

&&&H`gh pgrslhj #rgh %jtltkghujh s tng `g fh`g +njh

nuont$ `g cjkgtg$ ujkg gstg$ pg s`urt$ s tng tltubkgsprg `gbbhbt& Gstg l rgbhng kg `ljtrlb& /grslhjh %j `hu9gstg %j sthrg s flblsghs` tlhtg anmblh`gbg pgjtru h lonjghtgjnh n prg9gjh `gbunbhbt' s hagjnjg$ s flrg9g$ s sgpbjc$ s fh` autrg$ s sg %aolbj#ghs`$ s hno ujh``nkgjt$ s sg hrhtg sbho$ s mlh`g tghtru$ s bnjcughs`$s spnljg9g$ s s`ltl`ghs` %j bu`rurnbg pgrsljhbg hbg

`gbunbhbt gt`&&&&rn hrg hr + anmbl`ub flblsnt$ h`ghst pgrslhj gstg`lj#njs ` nuogtg htt kg aubt %j`t %b hmut pg `gbbhbt n` tltub gstg pgrans$ %j -uagbg nuonrnn& Kg hbtfgb$ spujgflhrtg kgs' "A plrt hstfgb pgjtru `h tg nuogs`"$ "H-$ kh`ju tg,h nuon htt kg aubt& 8u a fh`n s a plrt hstfgb&"H`gst cgj kg pgrslhjg %n hsua rhr rgspljshonbntnbg$ sujt

ahn kgcrho tgjthtg s %b h`u9g pg `gbhbhbt kg jgfgrn`nrghblr$ kglhrg`g fgrn`nrgh blr kgpnjkg kg `gbbhbt&&&?pujjk h`gstgh$ ha #9ut,l pg Hjh rlnnjk$ %n `lolr%

prn#nrgh n$ knj `g %j `g ahn stnjc-grnt$ s,h hpbg`ht s

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s`ltl`ghs` %j cghjth gn hg9ht pg mls& H s`ls l ohtnst ns,h prgf`ut ` %n su* jhsub& Ahrnl prgh s ju %n kghsghah kg kns`ljflrtub gn$ hs`ubth htgjt `ggh `g spujghagu&

1n$ %j `gbg knj ura$ g.nst N7N=GH HKGV=H8$jg`ljknnljht$ `hrg plhtg + g.prnaht %jtr,uj alkcgjgrhb$ pgjtru tlhtg flragbg kg nuontg& 2ng ` g #lrohkgsprg nuonrgh kg snjg$ nuonrgh phtgrjhb$ ahtgrjhb$frhtgahb$ njtna shu han`hb$ nuonrgh jg`ljknnljht sgg.prna %j h`gbhn alk& G.nst ahn aubtg alkurn kg hrg`ujlhtg h`ghst nuonrg&

NWON_GH KG PNJG; H,an h`lrkh krgptub kg h fn `ggh `g sujt$ %j +g`hrgalagjt$ `-nhr kh` ju sujt `ggh `g #rghu s +u Fkgg.gapbu' s +u jgroktlr$ anj`njls gt`&C

; ?,an h``gpt knfgrgjgbg fh kg `gnbhbn$ fr jn`n lmukg`ht&

; ? +u %j sthrg s %an fh` pg pbh`$ `-nhr kh` `rgk ` ju

agrnt h`gst bu`ru&; ? %an h`lrk krgptub kg h + uahj Fg.& ? ha tgagrn$sbon`nujn$ bnantgC&

; ? %an rghanjtgs` ` tlt `ggh `g trna gstg lg.pgrngj&)u l grlhrg$ bu`ru `hrg g#nt mukg`hth&

; ? %an bhs njnah s -ltrhs` %j bl` s nj `ljt kg

jlnujgh kg onjg n kg ru$ sucgrht kg `gnbhbn&; ? %j# knj +g`hrg g.pgrngj$ %j Nl` s a `ljkhaj&; ? %an hs`ubt jg#lnh$ `-nhr kh` `gnbhbn a sftungs` s

fh` hbtfgb&; ? %an +g onjg `-nhr kh` ju rspujk prlprnnblr agbg

htgptrn shu kh` ju %an nj prlansnujgh fh kg anjg%jsuan shu fh kg `gnbhbn&

; ? losgr# `ggh `g sg %jtapb `-nhr kh` g.nst l an`#l`g njtgrnlhr `hrg ju gstg kg h`lrk&

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; ? %an rghanjtgs` ` jnagjn ju sg plhtg l`uph kgfgrn`nrgh agh$ ` gu sujt snjcurh pgrslhj rgspljshonbpgjtru `ggh `g an sg %jtapb&

NWON_GH FH KG @GNBHBN; ? bg h`lrk krgptub s +g `ggh `g sujt$ %j +g`hrg

alagjt$ ahn hbgs htuj`n `jk ju sujt hh `ua h #rgh gus +g Fg.& @gbbhbt g bgjg shu jgchtn#nstC&

; ? h``gpt knfgrgjh `gblrbhbn fr s %n mukg`; ? khu sfhturn `gblrbhbn fr s htgpt jnan` %j s`-nao? bg h`lrk krgptub kg h + uahjn Fkg g.& ? hno frn`n$

sbon`nujn$ bnantgC

; ? bg pgrant s kg`nk snjcurn$ ahn hbgs htuj`n `jk`rgk ` gstg #lroh kgsprg l kg`n9ng njh``gpthonb&; ? %an rghanjtgs` ` +g`hrg pgrslhj hrg jg#lng s

trnhs` g.pgrngjg knfgrntg$ %j fuj`ng kg prlprnub su pbhjkg #nh&

; ? %n bhs s %n trnhs` g.pgrngjgbg n s %n hsuag`ljsg`njgbg&

; ? flraubg9 `grgrn fr htgptrn Fkg g.& ? tnu ` sujtnuont$ `-nhr kh` `gbbhbt %an spujg juC&; ? nj `ljt kg fhptub ` l htgpthrg gstg bgcntna klhr

htuj`n `jk g.nst l %jgbgcgrg `bhr %jtrg kluh pgrslhjg&; ? %n losgr# pg `gnbhbn$ ahn kgcrho kg`t s %n mukg`

shu s %n `rntn`&; ? nj anjtg ` ju plt fh`g pg hbt`njg#h fgrn`nt' h`gsth

gstg snjcurub rgspljshonb kg fgrn`nrgh bun&Gstg njtgrgshjt fhptub ` aubtg pgrslhjg `rgk ` kg+jnnhpg `hrg ha kht,l nuonrnn hkg#rhtg gstg kg fhpt kg+jnnhgclnsaubun& ?ujt `lj#njn ` h tg cjkn bh tnjg %jhnjtg kg htg cjkn bh `gnbhbn %jsghaj GEN?A& Kh` n #ln `rgkgn bhfgb$ h #rgh s prg`n9g9 fhptub ` h + gclnst %jsghaj h #rgh`h `gbbhbt s sg l`upg kg jg#lnbg jlhstrg$ %jhnjtg kg

jg#lnbg bun$ s ngn `g#h hsuprh th$ %j kgtrnagjtub `gbunbhbt$ s`rg9n ` `gnbhbn sujt rgspljshonbn kg prlprnh th fgrn`nrg$ gstgkg`n g.h`t `ljtrhrnub nuonrnn hkg#rhtg&

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; Hjh$ hn putgh s %an khn uj g.gapbu$ `jk b,hn h`u9htpg Ahrnl kg gclnsaI

Gstg flhrtg ulr$ rspujsg rgpgkg Hjh& jglrn an sg phrg` gstg flhrtg gclnst$ ahn hbgs `jk tgranj sgr#n`nub ahnkg#rgag& Gu hmujc h`hs pg bh hptg sghrh$ lolsnt kup l9n kg auj` n l lr kg stht %j agtrlu n %j hutlou9& 0u`rg9%j `gjtru$ %jtr,uj ahch9nj kg -hnjg pgjtru `lpnn n sthu %jpn`nlhrg hprlhpg tlht 9nuh& /rnaub bu`ru pg `hrg an,b spujgAhrnl `jk hmujc h`hs gstg' *n-g 'lhrtg 'lhag% *hnkurghz aut p$j g chth a$j`hrgh

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t`ut n s-hu untht th anjg j`ur`h!n% &a nz)u`jnt j r$s n gns-hu `haht% &pln j`gt hu j`gput s$ r$k n gn

9 2hptub kg h # hs`ubth n kg h # prn#n a hmut aubt ssnat `g sg %jtapb njtrg #ln kln& 8lt `ggh `g ha `grut$ gstguj g.gapbu kg gclnsa& ?g phrg ` ha htnjs l `lhrksgjsnonb$ ju,n hh HjhI

H`ua$ Ahrnl$ gstg rjkub tu s %an khn uj g.gapbu kggclnsa knj phrtgh Hjgn&

; Ha l aubnag kg g.gapbg& ntg ujub& 4an `grg tlttnapub s l suj kh` hmujc ahn tr9nu h`hs& 8lt tnapub#rgh s tng ujkg sujt$ bh `g lr a %jtlr`$ `u `njg sujt nhsth a gjgr#gh9& 2h` hprl#n9nljhrgh pgjtru uj ahch9nj

ahrg n ha l aubnag kg rgspljshonbntn& An sg %jtapbkgs s nj#nt uj `bngjt s oga uj ph-hr shu s bua ahsh%aprguj& Hstfgb plt s %j`-gn ahn onjg ujgbg hfh`grn& Hjhsg pbjcg ` ju a cjkgs` bh gh& @rgkg ` `bngjnn agnsujt ahn naplrthjn kg`t gh n `jk hmujc h`hs gsuprht& @rgk ` sg cjkgtg klhr bh gh& Hr trgoun shprg`ng9g tlht auj`h pg `hrg l fh` pgjtru h hku`g uj

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h`ghst sntuhng pgjtru ` tu hn htgptrn fh kg gb& Gb ju %nnh jnan`' pur n snapbu ju %n lfgr `ggh `g #rgn tu& Nhr tu #rgns,n rpgtn bun Ahrnl tnapub bun kg lkn-j h`hs&&&

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pg `gbbhbt gclnst$ `jk h`gsth ju rspujkg prlprnnblr blr

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jg#lnI Kglhrg`g `ljfujk N7N=GH `u /0@G=GH& Kg fhpt$pb`grgh ju %jsghaj nuonrg& Gstg l jlnujg flhrtgnaplrthjt `g trgoung rghanjtnt& 4j `gbg klu g.gapbg pg`hrg an bg,hn kht$ hn losgr#ht ` `laplrthagjtub ujunh jugstg pg pbh`ub `gbunbhbtI 4j h`gst bu`ru `ljst jg%jgbgcgrgh&H pb`gh plhtg %jsgajh pur n snapbu h fh`g pg pbh``gbunbhbt n %jtltkghujh gstg %j bgctur `u h hgh n `u h'h`g, ju `u h f% Gstg crgnt s `rgkgn ` `gn `hrg # nuogs`#lr h#gh %jtltkghujh `-gf s # fh` pg pbh` htuj`n `jk#rgn #ln& @gn `hrg `ljtnju sh `rghk h`gst bu`ru #lr h#ghphrtg kg aubtg kg9hacnrn$ kg frustrrn n kg furng nj #nhhblr&&&

&&&Kg hsgagjgh$ `ljfu9nh %jtrg h pb`gh n h nuon %n%apngkn` pg lhagjn s h``gptg `rntn`nbg& @jk ujub knjtrg#ln kln %n spujg `gbunbhbt ` ju %n pbh`g fgbub %j `hrg sg`laplrt$ cjkgtg$ #lrogtg$ sg %aorh` gt`& )u %n spujg`gbunbhbt ` ju D nuogtg' %n spujg pur n snapbu ` `gbbhbtju %n pbh`g Nj h`gb alagjt& V khn sghah `t kg naplrthjtgstg s h``gpn ` gstg NA/?N7N0 s bg +n pg pbh` tuturlr

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&&&Nhr h`ua$ Hjh$ tg snan prgctnt s nn spun bun Ahrnlprlobgah kgsprg `hrg an,hn #lront sptajh trg`utI Hnrgunt s fh`n `ggh `g n,ha sucgrhtI

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%jtrgornbg agbg kh` h`gst bu`ru a #h hmuth %j kgagrsubagu& Gh `rgkg ` h urah l tgrhpng gstg uj bu`ru pgjtru `gn`hrg hu prlobgag sgrnlhsg n h flst surprnjs `jk n,ha#lront kgsprg `ggh `g fh` gu& @u tlhtg h`gstgh$ a,hhs`ubtht htgjt `jk n,ha %aprtnt ujgbg bu`rurn kgsprg`hrg ha #lront `u tnjg& @rgk ` s,h kgs`-ns l plrtn pgjtrugh n ` khth #nntlhrg `jk l #ln #gkgh #h + ahn ulr s`laujn`a&&&

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prnnt-l n pg 'h!h un sg `ntghu l ang kg gprgsnn. unanrg,'urng, trnstg!g n knj jlu 'urng% /hj h ura n-h rspujs.

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alagjt kht shu ` n,h jujtnt phrtgjgrub& )u # `gr s %anspujgn hst9n& Ejknn,# ahn aubt bh h`gst bu`ru n kh` sgplhtg$ #lronn `u prnjnn #ltrn& Hpln #la #lron kgsprg hsth%j tnapub uratlhrgn #lhstrg #n9ntg&

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&&&/j bh ura$ kg+jnnh nuonrnn hkg#rhtg plhtg +rg9uaht prnj `u#jtub H@@G/8H=G %j tltub' h sg h``gpthpg snjg n h,n h``gpth pg `gnbhbn %j lrn`g g.pgrngj h #ngnn$`-nhr kh` jln ju sujtga kg h`lrk$ `-nhr kh` h`gst bu`ru

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&&&V bhs uj s`urt rg9uaht hb kg+jnngn nuonrnn kg snjg n hnuonrnn pgjtru `gnbhbn$ kgsprg `hrg #,ha #lront hst9n& V

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htntuknjn n `laplrthagjtg pg `hrg bg `ljsnkgr krhclstghkg#rht' hfg`nujgh$ anbh$ kg#lthagjtub$ nuonrgh,

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; 2gagnh fh`g krhclstg knj krhclstg n orohtub fh`gkrhclstg pgjtru krhclstg&&&

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; H + gclnst %jsghaj s #rgn `h `gbbhbt s sg l`upg kgjg#lnbg thbg %jhnjtg kg h sg l`uph kg h bg shbg$ %jsghaj h

buh `g#h pgjtru tnjg$ %j kgtrnagjthb `gbunbhbt$ h `rgkg ``gnbhbn sujt rgspljshonbn g fgrn`nrgh th& Gstg `ljtrhrnub nuonrnnhkg#rhtg& H + gclnst %jsghaj h buh `g#h `gbunbhbt$ pgjtruprlprnh jlhstr pb`grg&

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; Gstg crgnt s `rgkga ` `gn `hrg jg nuogs` #lr h#gh%jtltkghujh `-gf s jg fh` pg pbh` htuj`n `jk #rga jln&@gn `hrg #lr s `ljtnjug s `rghk %j h`gst bu`ru #lr h#ghphrtg kg aubtg kg9hacnrn$ frustrrn n furng %j #nh&

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anjg,n `-nhr n,h `grut s`u9g& A,h galnljht aubt h`gstbu`ru$ h spus Hjh$ prn#njku,b `u krhclstg& Kg fhpt$ ghkg#rht ` ju %n prlansgsga s `hb` h`gh `ah pjangr`urn& Gu a l`up agrgu kg `b`ht$ khr `hb` klhr `tg#hbu`rurn l kht$ +njk` ju %an pbh`g hh kg aubt s fh` h`gstbu`ru&

; ? `ljtnjua s #lrona kgsprg htgptrn& Hjh$ spujghn` tu gtn `gh `hrg sg l`up kg `b`ht& 0h %j`gputub`sjn`ngn #lhstrg$ n,hn buht hjchmhagjtub$ fh kg Ahrnl s%jkgpbngtn h`ghst auj` pj bh sfrntub #ngnn shu hkg#gjnt l lonjunj pg `hrg Ahrnl l `ljsnkgr h`ua ujfhpt onjg sthonbntI

; Hn krgpthtg$ 0nsg$ a,ha lonjunt s `hb` kglhrg`g$ `rgk` orohnn ju tnu s fh` `ua trgoung h`gst bu`ru& Khr juan,ha buht jn`nlkht uj hjchmhagjt flrahb s fh` h`gstbu`ru& Vrgn s spun ` gstg ahn onjg s jg bua h`gsthjchmhagjt$ pgjtru lrn`gI

; Vln `g `rgkgnI 4j`gr`hn s # nahcnjhn l fhanbng %j`hrg tlhtg shr`njnbg `ltnkngjg sujt kgtgranjhtg knjhnjtg n

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; %an pbh`g nkggh h`ghsth$ rspujsg Ahrnl& Khr #la h#ghjg#lng kg aubt auj`$ s sthonbna tlhtg h`gstgh$ ju,n

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; 2lhrtg onjg$ Hjh& G `gb ahn onjg s h`nljg9n hh& ?ujtsncur ` g.nst kgmh ahn aubtg bu`rurn pg `h`g bg fh`gn

+g`hrg n ` #gn `ljtnjuh hstfgb& Hstfgb$ sg g#nt aubtgfrustrrn %j #nhh ujgn fhanbnn&; Kh$ khr hsth ju %jsghaj ` kh` #h g.nsth l bnst

`bhr$ tlhtg shr`njnbg sg #lr %apbnjn6 4an g tgha ` Ahrnl$

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`hrg hkgsglrn bu`rgh9 kup uj prlcrha jgrgcubht$ #h csnaltn#g sgrnlhsg pgjtru h ju,n %jkgpbnjn shr`njnbg `hrg %nrg#nj& @t kgsprg ?hjkrh$ ha naprgsnh ` %j `h9ub gn #h + nahn ru& 4n pgtrg`g tnapub bujku,n tlt fgbub kghjchmhagjtg$ khr pj bh ura ju fh`g jnan`& Hrg thbgjtubkg h sg fh`g jg#9ut& ?ujt hprlhpg sncur ` ju #hfuj`nljh %j `h9ub gn& /lhtg hr + ahn onjg s ju %n htrnoun ngn shr`njn %j `hs&

; 8u gtn `gh `hrg -ltrtg$ Hjh& Hbgcg `ggh `g tg fh`g`gb ahn punj s sufgrn& Vgrn+`$ pg l s`hr kg bh uju bh9g`g$ njtgjsnthtgh galnnblr pg `hrg bg hn htuj`n `jk fh`ntltub %j bl`ub gn& Kup h`ggh$ %n sucgrg9 s fh`n uj

g.pgrnagjt' spujg,n ` fh`g n gh phrtg knj fhanbng$ `flblsgtg n gh `hsh bh fgb `h n #ln n kg`n$ trgoung s %n%jkgpbnjghs` shr`njnbg klagstn`g bh fgb `h n #ln&&& , 1tnu `#h rspujkg ` jln sujtga `gn `hrg ha #rut s h#ga uj`lpnb n kg`n trgoung s trna `u `ljsg`njgbg h`gstgn kg`n9nnn ` gh ju h `grut s #nj pg buag& @rgk ` tnjgrnn knj 9nuhkg h9n sujt flhrtg lorh9jn`n6 =ajk hkgsglrn `u curh

`s`ht htuj`n `jk %n huk `lagjthrnnbg n pj bh ura ghgstg `gh `hrg hrg `tnc kg `hu9&; G hkg#rht ` tnjgrnn knj 9nuh kg h9n spuj knrg`t `ggh `g

hu kg 9ns$ khr tnn$ bu`rub h`gsth gstg flhrtg ouj& 8njgrnn knjcgjgrhnnbg hjtgrnlhrg$ nj`busn# knj cgjgrhnh jlhstr$cjkghu h`gbhn bu`ru `h n `gn kg h9n$ khr ju %jkr9jghu sspuj jnan`& @gb punj$ h`gtn tnjgrn sg kgs`hr`$

h`uaubgh9 aubt ahn punjg `ljtrhkn`nn kg`t jln& H`ghsthgstg bhturh ouj h lor9jn`ngnJ blr& )u spuj ` sujt kgh`lrk `u `laplrthagjtg bnpsntg kg rgspg`t$ khr$ %j `hbnthtgkg prnjn$ hr trgoun s jg rghanjtna agrgu fhptub ` `lpnnnjltrn hu %j#ht h`gst `laplrthagjt kg h`hs& Hu lnjtunng flhrtg putgrjn`$ sg phrg ` tnu knj njstnj`t `ggh `gprnjnn blr ju n,hu h`lrkht jn`nlkht krgptub s fh`& 1n

`ua ju #lr s +g bh fgb `h gn$ kg`nk s fh` `ljtrhrnub n s%jkr9jghs`$ kg g.gapbu$ s spuj `ggh `g hu kg spus&Altn#ub pgjtru `hrg `laplrthagjtub blr #n sg phrg h +lorh9jn`$ gstg kglhrg`g +n`h #lhstr gstg %j rgh`nljhn %j

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#ln$ khr gstg naplrthjt s %n g.pbn`hn `ggh `g #,ha spus gu&H#gn tlt krgptub s kg`nkgn `g #rgn #ln pgjtru h trn ahnpb`ut %j `hsh #lhstr&&&

&&&Kg lon`gn$ `gh ahn ouj alkhbnthtg gstg s #lrogtn `u`gn an`n& 4jtrgho,l pg +n`h th `g hr #rgh s fh`$ kh` hr +`hsh gn$ `hrg hr + rgcubnbg pg `hrg bg,hr sthonbn gh& /rlohonb` hr + knfgrntg kg rgcubnbg #lhstrg& /utgn s %j`gr`hn shmujcgn %aprguj bh uj h`lrk f`jk `u tlnn ujh shu klu`lj`gsnn& ?ujtgn prgctnn s g.pgrnagjthn h`gst bu`ru n s#gkgn `g sg #h s`-naoh$ %j`gpjk `u sptajh #nntlhrgI

7-hu prnnt l't$jk n hu j`unnj!ht prnjtr-l j`njhrg h`hpuun% -%n aubuana pgjtru sucgstnn& Ha n gu l %jtrgohrg

pgjtru tnjg$ 0nsg& @ua h putgh s hmujc s h``gpt fgbub %j`hrg sg$ %aorh` ?hjkrhI Kh` hr + snjcurh `hrg sg%aorh` hh$ `rgk n ` hr + ahn ulr s l fh` s %jgbghc` gstg prgh m prl#l`htlhrg$ %js tlhtg prngtgjgbg gn sg%aorh` bh fgb& )u ahn m tnu `g s fh`& 0h fgb `h anjg$ Ahrnl$ju gstg kg h`lrk `u njuth gn$ `rgk ` hsth %b `ljtrhrnh9 nahn aubt$ khr hr #rgh s a l`up gu kg sntuhnh hsth& Ha

#9ut %j s`rngrnbg thbg `tg#h bu`rurn `hrg hr putgh s ahmutg$ %js ju tnu `g s ahn fh`&&&&&&?pujghn ` trgoung s bg h`lrka `gblrbhbn krgptub kg h

+ `ggh `g #lr s +g$ ahn hbgs kh` ju sujt hh `ua #rgajln$ s %n bsa s nh gn snjcurn kg`n9nnbg n s,n trnhs`prlprnnbg g.pgrngjg$ bsjku,n s,n hsuag `ljsg`njgbgprlprnnblr blr hbgcgrn& Hn spus kg hsgagjgh ` trgoung s bg

ka sfhturn shu sucgstnn fr s htgpta jnan` %j s`-nao&f6 Gstg flhrtg crgu6 Gstg bh fgb pgjtru tln prnjnnI; Gstg uj g.gapbu flhrtg ouj kg `laplrthagjt `hrg #

kgrhjmgh9$ khr$ %j sntuhnh h`ghsth$ l prn#gtg klhr pg +n`h#lhstr$ kglhrg`g ju # nj#hkgh9 sphnub njtna& Gh #rgh s+g htrctlhrg& Kh` `ggh `g hr + #rut gh s +g #,hr +hfg`tht sphnub$ hn + h#ut krgthtg s ju h``gpthn h`gst

bu`ru& Kh`$ kg g.gapbu$ Hjh n,hr + buht -hnjgbg$ fr s %n`ghr pgransnujgh$ hn + h#ut krgpthtg s njtgr#nn n s %nnjtgr9n`n h`gst bu`ru& 4j h`gst `h9 gstg hbt`g#h$ ju `rg9nI Kg

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`g %n gstg tgha ` s,hr %jtapbh kh` l bhn pg +n`h th ssg %aorh`g hh `ua #rgh ghI

; An,g frn` s ju +g hcrgsht shu s ju `rghk tlhtbuagh ` gstg l fgagng ulhr&

; %n hku`n hanjtg$ %j htgbngrub &s`ut-!n `lrpu, haagjnljht fhptub ` %j rghbnthtg ju jg gstg jn`nlkht frn`pgjtru hbnn$ `n pgjtru jln %jnjgI

*hrnl h '`ut uj sgaj ` ju% &jh, js, h spus ` hj!ggs )njg h`gst u`ru, js n-h spus nagknht ` ju hrputgh f hkgrht j tlhtg sntuh!nng%

; 2gbn`ntrn pgjtru snj`grnthtg$ Hjh& Hn l rgh`ng hoslbutjlrahb& 4n hku n hanjtg `t kg rg9nstgjt gstg gcl,ub

jlstru %j fhh lrn`run bu`ru jluI Kg h`ggh spuj ` hn lrgh`ng jlrahb& /g asur `g tg #gn lonjun s pun%jtrgornbg pltrn#ntg$ #gn kgs`lpgrn hutlaht `hrg gstg tghahth %j +g`hrg sntuhng htuj`n `jk `rg9n ` %n gstg frn`pgjtru hbt`njg#h&Kg`n$ %j `ggh `g l prn#gtg pg ?hjkrh$ kh` n s,hr %jtapbh`ggh `g `rg9n tu$ kg `g hjuag n,hr + ng frn`I

#n`n ju ha j`(gnht )njg jtrg)hrgh n gh hgh h`rnan jl`(n% N-ha spus s rgspnrg hk$j` n n-ha kht hp n l)htnst% 6rgptht, s,h `haht hpln%

9 An,ha hanjtnt uj bu`ru pgtrg`ut %j hklbgs`gjh agh&H#gha `nj`nsprg9g`g hjn n prngtgjh agh `gh ahn ouj$)n`lbg$ `hrg bl`unh %j `hsh #g`nj `u h jlhstr$ h flsthcrgsht kg uj oroht aubt ahn %j #rst kg`t gh$ `hrg

bl`unh snjcur$ %j ubtnah `hs kg pg strhk& Vgkgha flhrtgonjg `jk sg unth bujc kup tlhtg fgtgbg knj %aprgmurnan$%js ju %n ahn h`lrkha htgjng& An,ha kht sghah ` h#ghklhr phnsprg9g`g hjn `jk n s,h %jtapbht h`gst bu`ru& 1n `gbahn ru h flst fhptub ` ahah agh n ahah bun )n`lbg$ `hrggrhu `htlbn`g prh`tn`hjtg$ hu trnt flhrtg crgu h`ghsntuhng&&&

&&&Kup h`ggh$ ahah an,h njtgr9ns s l ahn #k pg )n`lbg$spujjku,an ` gh grh `u sncurhj #njl#ht n gh fusgsg`gh `hrg$ prnj `laplrthagjtub gn %b htrsgsg pg h`gb klaj&Ahah bun )n`lbg$ a h`u9h `$ +njk `u uj hj ahn ahrg$ gu

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grha `gh `hrg l nj*ugjhsga pg gh& )n`n gh ju ahn #lnh `h+n`h gn s a #hk& Ha `ljtnjuht s jg #gkga pg hs`ujs$khr `jk ahah gn h h*ht$ h `grtht,l flhrtg thrg n h pus,ls prlant ` ju a #h ahn %jtbjn& 7njg%jgbgs ` ahahan,h rg9gr#ht h`gbhn trhthagjt htuj`n `jk h h*ht n gh&)u ha ahn h#ut #lng s ngs knj `hs shu s prnags`tgbgflhjg$ tnap kg l buj& Kup h`ggh ha h*ht ` )n`lbggrh %jsr`njht %j bujh h phtrh$ ` ju ahn agrcgh bh `lhbhprn#ht ujkg agrcgh %jhnjtg n ` fusgsg trnans bh latu pgjtru h jhtg `lpnbub& 4n khn sghah$ h#jk %j#gkgrg `rgknjgbg rgbncnlhsg hbg ahagn gn$ ` jn`n ju sgpujgh prlobgah s l bhsg pg +n`h gn s fh` uj h#lrt& )u

ha ahn #9ut,l jn`nlkht pg )n`lbg& /gjtru anjg h flst l%j`gr`hrg flhrtg crgh& Hjub uratlr jg,ha autht n hpln hah*ht ` `lpnbub gn fusgsg kht sprg hklpng&&&&

&&&Kg `tg lrn ju ha hu9nt,l pg ahah spujjk' "G ahn)njg pgjtru tnjg s ju ra$n jsr`njht jhnjtg kg`stlrng3 #u tg-h ngrth jn`nlkht pgjtru hh `gh3 & fl)ncht s `rgs` gu `lpnu n ju rghu s hga uj )hsthrk

j 'hanng3 hrg kg `g ju ha f`ut pj h`ua bgcturhI Kgh`gst bu`ru %an gstg `gb ahn frn`' `h ju `ua#h ?hjkrh sraj %jsr`njht$ nhr gu s +u rgspljshonb kg `lpnb$ `hju `ua#h rgputhnh gn s +g ptht& H`ua %jgbgc kg `gtrngs` h`gsth sntuhng `u +n`h agh `hrg hrg h`uaphnsprg9g`g hjn& H`gb nj`nkgjt h ahr`ht,l aubt n pg ahahagh$ kglhrg`g kup h`ggh a,h suprh#gc-ght flhrtg strn`t&

H#gh ahn punj %j`rgkgrg %j anjg n trgounh s %n spuj%jtltkghujh ujkg agrcgha n `u `njg& Gstg flhrtgnjtgrgshjt fhptub ` ha csnt h`ghst bgctur$ khr `g fh`h`uaI @rg9n ` fhptub ` ha `ljtngjtn9ht h`gst bu`ru plhtgs s`-naog `g#h$ s kgtgranjg fhptub ` ?hjkrh #h %j`gpgs sg %aorh`g ahn punj prl#l`htlrI

; Vg9n$ h#gha krgpthtg `jk spujgha ` knj `hu9h th sg

%aorh` hstfgb$ spusg Ahrnl$ hrtjk,l pg Hjh `u kgcgtub&Kg h`ggh #lnha s tg l`upn tu kg h`gst bu`ru& @t kg crgugstg s `rgtn l fht$ ahn hbgs `jk gstg hklbgs`gjt6 Gaubt ahn snapbu `u ongnn& )ln$ prnjnn ju h#ga altn#g kg

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%jcrnmlrhrg bgchtg kg ongn n kg #nhh blr sg.uhb& @u +ubagu ju ha h#ut jn`nlkht prlobgah h`ghsth& 4j `ggh `g lprn#gtg pg ?hjkrh$ spgr knj tlt su*gtub ` `ggh `g ha#lront hst9n hn`n #h s`-naoh `g#h$ kglhrg`g sujt kg h`lrk`u Hjh ` +n`h jlhstr g.hcgrgh9 %j fgbub gn kg h sg%aor`h& 1n %an spuj ujglrn ` uj oroht hr putgh +prl#l`ht kg fgbub gn kg h sg %aor`h&

*-ha cr)nt s lr)gs` kglhrg`g ha zut ` &jh lnhs rnplstgzg nlgjt h h`uzh!nh sl!uun gn%

; Ahrnl$ #lrogtn kgsprg orohn `u prlobgag sg.uhbg&?pun h`gst bu`ru pgjtru ` n tu hn h`gstg prlobgagI& rlnt pu!nj hpln h prnnt-l pg &jh n an-h rspujs l't$jk .

; Knj alagjt `g sujt hn`n$ hr trgoun s +u snj`gr pj bh`hpt$ juI Kh$ hh gstg kg aubtg lrn %an bnpsgtg h`gstbu`ru& Kg fhpt$ ju a,ha snant kgbl` onjg n %j ubtnaub tnapju prgh ha `-gf kg ahrg bu`ru$ nj`busn# kg sg.& ?nat ` %anbnpsgtg& jglrn$ 9nuh$ %an nahcnjg9 ` gstg bh fgb `hhbtkht$ %js$ `jk #njg sghrh ju ahn ha kgbl` gjgrcng& Hnputgh s %an spun kg `g a snat htt kg kgs bnpsnt kg

gjgrcngI; s #lrona hbtkht kgsprg hsth& ? rg#gjna bhsuong`tub jlstru$ gtn kg h`lrkI 4an spun ` snan ` %nbnpsgtg rgbhnh sg.uhb n ` tg cjkgtn bh h`gst bu`ru %jtnapub 9nbgn& 4j hstfgb kg alagjtg$ `jk #g9n l hklbgs`gjt$%aor`ht %jtr,uj alk flhrtg prl#l`htlr %n #njg s shrn pgghI

; )n`n #lro$ jn`n a`hr ju %an trg`g prnj `hp hh `g#h& csgs` frualhs n sg.n$ khr klhr htt& )u a,h putghcjkn jn`nlkht htt kg kgphrtg&

; Htuj`n kg `g `rg9n ` hbn orohn$ %j h`gghn sntuhng `hn tnjg$ ju sujt bh fgb `h tnjgI

Kgsncur$ hu g.nstht knjtltkghujh orohn nahturn sg.uhb$`hrg ju sg cjkgs` kg`t bh `ua s fh` krhclstg `u tnjgrg

fgtg ?hu ujglrn `u ongn tnjgrn& Ahmlrnthtgh sg honj$ hbnn jurgugs` jn`nlkht n hmujc s hcrgsg9g pg `njg#h$ `h n `gbkgsprg `hrg #lroghn ahn kg#rgag$ Hjh& @gb `hrg h hcrgsht,l pg prngtgjh th$ )n`lbg& @gn `hrg ju rgugs` s sg

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stpjghs` fh` h`gst bu`ru pgjtru ` gn %jnn hu flsthcrgshn `jk grhu flhrtg tnjgrn n sujt %j` pbnjn kgrhj`-nuj fh kg hcrgslrub blr' @u `t `njg#h %n spujg ahnaubt ` ju #h kg#gjn jn`nlkht `h l hsgagjgh pgrslhj$pg `hrg l h`u9 shu l mukg`$ `u htt g ahn sncur ` #hkg#jn %jtr,l 9n hstfgb& H`gst bu`ru fh`g phrtg knj bgcghahjnfgstrnn' `u `t jg `hjhbn9a ahn aubt gjgrcng pg ujhjuant cjk$ `u htt kg9#lbta uj sgjtnagjt ahn putgrjn`bgcht kg h`gb cjk n `u htt ahn aubt sg #h ahjnfgsth h`gbcjk& H`gsth bgcg gstg anjujht htuj`n `jk l flblsnapgjtru h `rgh `ggh `g jg klrna&&&

&&&Kg`n$ pgjtru h rg#gjn bh ?hjkrh$ tu gtn `ljtngjt$ Hjh$

` hn htrhs %j #nhh th kg aha l tjr fht `hrg sg%aorh` prl#l`htlr pgjtru h tg hmuth s,n phr`urcn prlprnubtu prl`gs kg h``gpthrg %j rgbhnh `u ahah th$ `hrgcgjgrgh9 h`gbghn frn`n pg `hrg bg h#ghn n tu$ `u prn#nrg bhsg.uhbnthtgI

; Vrgn s spun n tu ` knj `hu9h agh +n`h agh sg%aorh` hstfgbI 4an `gr s`u9g$ h`ua gcl,ub agu gstg `gb

`hrg cjkgtg& A`hr hst9n %an khu sghah kgstub kgrgpgkg kg h`gst bu`ru6 1tnu ` h + rgspljshonb %jsghaj hh``gpth fhptub ` htrhcga hjuantg `laplrthagjtg nhtntuknjn knj phrtgh `gblr hprlpnhn pgjtru h jg hmuth s`ljtngjtn9ha uj hjuant bu`ru pg `hrg trgoung s %bs`-naoa shu rg9lb#a& Ha rg`ntnt `hpntlbub kgsprgrgspljshonbn9hrg$ %j ura `u `tg#h 9nbg n %an spujgha `t

kg crgu gstg s h``gpn h`ghst jlnujg& Ha %jgbgs `$kh` ju jg h``gpta prlprnh rgspljshonbnthtg$ jg putgasnan #njl#hn& G.h`t h`gst bu`ru an s,h %jtapbht ang& A,ha snant h`u9ht kg `trg Ahrnl$ htuj`n `jk spujghn `htntuknjgh ?hjkrgn hrgh l bgctur `u anjg& 7njg$ sujt kgh`lrk& Khr `g plt fh`g h`uaI

; %n spujgha punj ahn kg#rgag ` trgoung s %n

%apbnjgtn prl`gsub kg h``gpthrg fh kg ahah th& @hrgh`ng bh htntuknjgh gn `hu9ht kg frn`h gn kg h ju rajg%jsr`njht$ kg `g hjuag hn h`u9ht,lI

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; Ha h`u9ht,l ` gstg jgkrghpt$ ` ju a %jgbgcg nahn hbgs ` ju a hs`ubt& Grh `h n `ua %an spujgh ` ngu sujt l trf$ bh fgb `h n prngtgjh agh& )u ahn h#gh%j`rgkgrg %j anjg&

; Gn onjg$ h`ua tnn `g hn kg f`ut& 4j 9nuh %j `hrg #gnputgh snan ` ahah th h`nljh hstfgb pgjtru ` tg nuogh$bh fgb `ua tu tg %jcrnmlrg9n pgjtru +n`h th$ %n #gn csn bnjntghnjtgrnlhr&&&

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; G snapbu$ ha #rgh `h ?hjkrh s ju raj %jsr`njht$prnj urahrg s +g ahn punj sg.n& H`gst bu`ru hr rg9lb#htltub6

; A fh`n s rk Hjh$ kglhrg`g g cgjub kg rspujs pg`hrg %b huk agrgu& 4n khn sghah `t kg aubt kgpnjkg `ggh`g #rgn tu$ kg +n`h thI @jk spun$ G V=GH$ trgoung skgpnjk %jtltkghujh kg tnjg& s tg hmut punj& Vrgn s pln

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; 1n kh` ?hjkrh ju #rgh s #lroghs` kgsprg h`gstgbu`rurnI

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`ljsg`njgbg sujt hbg gn&; 8l`ahn$ rgfgrntlr bh `ljsg`njg$ s prgsupujga ` ju #h#rgh s sg s`-naog n ` #h rajg %jsr`njht$ htuj`n gun Ahrnl #h trgoun s jg hsuaa `ljsg`njgbg$ juI Kgh`gst bu`ru %an gstg `gb ahn frn`6

; @jk %n #gn pl#gstn tlhtg h`gstgh$ hr + onjg s %n spun `hn prgfgrh s +g ahn punj prl#l`htlhrg$ ` h`gst bu`ru tg,

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; Gstg hkg#rht ` sujt hspg`tg bgchtg kg #nhh kgfgagng$ khr kh` tu hn h*h ` +n`h th gstg %jsr`njht$htuj`n #h kg#gjn n prlobgah th& ?ujt sncur ` ju hnrajg njknfgrgjt& 8ltun$ sujt kg h`lrk `h tu s ju +n kgfh bh `lj#grshnh knjtrg Hjh n ?hjkrh& 8ghah th ` +n`hth ju sg #h snan %j bhrcub gn s #lroghs` kgsprg h`gstg

bu`rurn$ hrht fhptub ` n tu tg,hn snan stnjc-grnt s #lrogtn`u gh kgsprg hsth n gh hr putgh + hfg`tht&&&&&&Khr `g spun s +n kg fh$ `jk #gn s`rng bnsth `u

`ljsg`njgbg plsnonbgI 1n$ %j `hbnthtg kg oroht n kg tht stg l`upn kg bu`rurn knfgrntg& 4n sucgrg9 s tg cjkgtn n$kh` #rgn s #lrogtn snjcur `u +n`h th$ kup `g #gn h*h`ua h flst knhblcub knjtrg gh n Hjh$ pln s fh`n flhrtg onjg

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; Kh$ aubuags`$ 0nsg& @ggh `g trngs` %j rgbhng `u Kh#nkju a bhs s klra jlhptgh& )u %jgbgc kg `g a htnjcghtt kg aubt h`gst bu`ru& /rlobgah gstg ` b,ha susnjutahtgrnhb pgjtru h urah stuknn kg `ljthonbnthtg& Ha f`utaubtg sh`rn+`nn pgjtru h rgun h`gst bu`ru& 0h sfrntubstuknnblr$ Kh#nk n,h csnt flhrtg rgpgkg uj bl` kg auj`%jtr,l +ra naplrthjt n sujt flhrtg aubuant& 8htb aguju an,h pbtnt jn`nlkht stuknnbg bh fh`ubthtg n an,ha prlans` +ub agu #h + ahn gku`ht kg`t anjg& Kg h`ggh grhahtt kg fgrn`nt' %an %apbnjnsga s`lpub `u gb n %an spujga `rlbub agu kg tht h flst %apbnjnt$ ` h`ua Kh#nk gstg hkubt$hrg l prlfgsng sthonb n onjg pbtnt n kg h`ua %jhnjtg #nhh

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; Kg `jk h #gjnt prnah lhr bh tnjg$ h`ua trgnsptajn$ h rg`ntnt `hrtgh kgsprg rjn$ pgjtru h,n rghanjtntlhtg jlnujnbg$ nhr hpln$ kup h kluh %jtbjnrg pg `hrg hnh#ut,l$ ha #rut n gu s `ntgs` `hrtgh& 8rgoung sarturnsgs` ` #h trgoun s l rg`ntgs`$ kglhrg`g a

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prnjtgbg kg h`gbhn sg. `h n `lpnbub& Kg h`ggh ha spus `g #lroh kgsprg `gbg klu rjn& 8u `hrg knjtrg gbg `rg9n ` hflst rgh`tn#ht %j `h9ub tuI

; A snat rgspnjs kg `lpnbub agu htuj`n `jk gb ju #rghs,rjn urag9g sfhturnbg n `jk snat ` ju #rgh s +g `hanjg& Kg hbtfgb$ an,h spus kg ahn aubtg lrn h`gst bu`ru& Ansg phrg jgkrgpt fhptub ` h h#ut jg#lng kg htt kg aubt

tnap pgjtru h,n kh sghah ` ju %n pb`gh prlfgsnh kg`ljthonb& Hr + putut s sg lfgrg s,an kgh %jhpln l phrtg knjohjnn `-gbtunn pgjtru stuknnbg bun$ pg `hrg n,ha `-gbtuntkghcghoh& 1n,h `uaprht kg `urjk l ahnj frualhs$

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flhrtg s`uap$ kg`n tnu ` l ku`g onjg `u ohjnn& Kg hbtfgb$an sg phrg ` gb n slnh bun trngs` punj pgstg bnantgbg blr+jhj`nhrg& ?pgr ` ju hrg khtlrnn pg `hrg gu #h trgoun s bgpbtgs` %jtr,l 9n& )u %jkr9jgs` s %n #lrogs` kgsprg hsth gkgstub ` a kgrhjmgh9 agsgrnh bun6

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suong`tI; Gu ju h + %jkr9jnt jn`nlkht s %n #lrogs` thtbun aguhh `ua %an #lrogtg ang +ub agu& 4j pbus$ kh` n,h +napus thtbun agu `ggh `g an,h f`ut ang Kh#nk$ hr +trgount s %n %jhplng9 thtbun agu `gb punj muathtg knjohjnn `-gbtunn pgjtru anjg& Hr + flst ahn `lrg`t hh6

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gn n h#gha phnsprg9g`g hjn `jk h aurnt gb$ nhr slrh agh`gh ahn an` h#gh hsg hjn& 8hth h#usgsg l hsncurhrg kg#nh$ %js ahah h trgount s auj`ghs` knj crgu pgjtru hrgun s h`lpgrg jg#lnbg jlhstrg kg oh9& 0h hptgsprg9g`g

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hjn h trgount s,an %jtrgrup stuknnbg pgjtru h l hmuth pgahah$ h``gptjk prnah auj` pg `hrg ha csnt,l$ pgjtruh `tnch ohjn pgjtru `hs& 1tnn `g an,hr + pb`ut s kg#njIH#l`ht6 4j hjub knjhnjtgh alrnn thtbun agu$ n,ha%aprtnt #nsub agu$ nhr gb h rs g anjg ' pur n snapbu hn9ou`jnt %j rs& =sub bun a,h f`ut s sufr htt kg aubt%j`t %an #gjgh s %b bl#gs`&

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pgjtru hh `g#h$ +njk`$ kup prgrgh bun& 8ln h#l`hn grhujntg -ln& )u n,ha ahn #lront jn`nlkht kgsprg h`gst bu`ru$khr %an prlansgsga ` #ln rgun$ njknfgrgjt `g `rgkgh gb&&&

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`gb ahn ahrgI Htuj`n ha -ltrt ` ju #ln ahn agrcg bhonsgrn`& )u #lnha s ahn tnu jnan` kgsprg uj Kuajg9gu`hrg sg hau9h pgkgpsnjk hstfgb lhagjnn& Ha %j`gputrg`lj`nbngrgh `uKuajg9gu kg honh kup `g ha uraht `ursub &s`ut-!n`lrpu%A,h bnjntnt nkggh ` ju plhtg g.nsth uj Kuajg9gu `hrgpgkgpsgtg& H`gst bu`ru a,h hmutht s ju ahn +u htt kgfurnls `h htuj`n&

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%jtrgoha& Hn #rgh s ngs hfhr n s #lrogtn klhr `u 0nsgI@rg9n ` hh hr + ahn ulr pgjtru tnjgI

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+ub su&&& @gb ahn naplrthjt gstg s fh`n h`gst bu`ru pgjtrutnjg$ bh %j`gput& Hstfgb$ ahn %jtn trgoung s %n h`lr9n krgptubkg h,n + rgspnjs thtb n hpln +ub n s h``gpn fhptub ` ntu$ bh rjkub tu$ hn flst jgkrgpt fh kg gn& =gpgt$ `gnbhbn jgh`u9 kg h`gbhn bu`ru kg `hrg %n h`u9a n jln& Gcl,ubjlstru jg %apngkn` s #gkga ` n jln ha h`nljht bh fgb`h `gn pg `hrg %n h`u9a& Kg h`ggh ju jg ka sghah kgh`u9hnh pg `hrg jg,l hku`ga jlu %jnjg&&&

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; Gstg hkg#rht$ `u ujgbg pgrslhjg$ ahn hbgs `u `gn

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; Kgl`hakht ju prgh tnu `g s rspujk& 8lt `g tnugstg ` #rghu s sg s`-naog h`gsth sntuhng$ kglhrg`g juahn suplrt& Kg fhpt$ `rg9n ` plhtg + #lroh kgsprg lprlobga `hrg %an `ljsua tlht gjgrcnhI

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s spuj ` sujt g.`ntht$ khr tnu ` trgoung s fh` `g#h& )uha jnan` kg pngrkut kh` %j`gr` agtlkh th& ?ujt flhrtgfgrn`nt bh cjkub ` #h + onjg `u Kh#nk `jk jg #la #gkghn ` ju #h ahn + sthrgh h`ggh tgjsnljht %jtrg jln& 4an gstgcrgu s `rgk ` sg #h %jtapbh h`gst bu`ru$ khr sujtprgctnt s fh` phrtgh agh knj h`gst kgagrs& ?pgr ` n gb#h + prgctnt& Kh$ h`ua ha %jgbgs `g spujghn hknjghurn 'kh` ju %b h`u9$ #h + prgctnt s a hs`ubtg& @g sg %jtapbkh`$ fr s #rghu$ %b h`u9 kg `g#hI s rhtg9 tltub$ %j` lkhtI

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tnap pgjtru h hmujcg bh l h``gpthrg tlthb& ? nn anjtgbu`rub `gb ahn naplrthjt' njtgjnh th `ljtgh9 n `ggh `g#rgn s rgugtn& ? ju unn `g %n klrgtn6

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s hklptg `laplrthagjtg `ljtrhrnn `gblr hbg prnjnblr$pgjtru h,n fh`g s rgh`nljg9g&; @jk g.nst uj hjchmhagjt shu l %jgbgcgrg %jtrg klu

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; @u `t ahn aubt %j`ghr` l pgrslhj s fh` tltubpgjtru h ju + jgkrghpt$ `u htt ahn aubt #h + `ljsnkgrhthstfgb kg `trg `gnbhbn&

; Ahmlrnthtgh knjtrg jln ju tna ` fh`ga tltub pgjtru hju + mukg`hn %jtr,uj hjuant fgb n `u tlhtg h`gstgh `gnbhbnjg mukg` hstfgb&

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2N `ggh `g #rgh n ju kg h 2H@G tlt `g #rgh$ ahn hbgs kh``ggh `g fh`g jg kgrhjmgh9&; )n`nlkht ju jg gstg frn` pgjtru `gnbhbn$ `n pgjtru jln

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; Hkg#rhth prlobga$ %j lrn`g sntuhng gstg frn`h pgjtruprlprnh th pgrslhj$ pg `hrg l h`tn#gh9 h`gh sntuhng&

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h`gst bu`ru bh #rsth hkubt& @gn hprlpnhn ju sujt bjc jlnpgjtru h jg fh`g s sufgrna$ `n ahn kgcrho pgjtru h jghmuth s csna nuonrgh hkg#rht& Htrhcga g.pgrngjg crgukg h``gptht$ `u pgrslhjg kg h`gbhn sg. `u prnjtgbg `u`hrg ha trnt g.pgrngjg hsgajtlhrg$ `hrg hu rahsjgh``gpthtg %j `lpnbrng& @jk h`u9a pg `njg#h kg ujhjuant bu`ru$ h`gh pgrslhj tg #h h`u9h kg h`gbhn bu`ru&

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